Who do you care for? What is your family situation?

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I am a caregiver for my mother, Annette. I have 6 kids (ages, 43, 41, 39, 37, 34, 32) and 4 brothers. 

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When was your mother diagnosed? 

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My mother was diagnosed in 2011. 

 

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How long have you been a caregiver and how did you end up taking on this role?

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In 2012 Mom sold her home and moved closer and in 2014 she came to live with me. 

 

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What has been most helpful to you during this time and how?

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Mom's Geriatrician, Dr. Edid Romos and Friends Place Adult Day Services. 

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What has been the most challenging part of being a caregiver? 

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Getting some time to myself to meet with friends. Also, mom has expressive aphasia and it can be a struggle to find out her wants and needs. 

 

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Imagine that you've just met a person who's loved one just received their diagnosis yesterday. They are at Day 1 of this journey. What advice would you give them?

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Find a good geriatrician who can give you a real prognosis and steps and a timeline.  Also, look for an adult daycare, support groups and assisted living when needed.

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Is there anything else you would like to share?

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I am so thankful to God that my daughters are available to give me an occasional break. 

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